Mars Review of Books

Mars Review of Books

Issue 1

Reflections on Hookup Culture

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Katherine Dee
May 20, 2022
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This essay appears in Issue 1 of the Mars Review of Books. Visit the MRB store here.


When people ask me about my romantic life before my marriage, I often tell them I was a femcel.

Hindsight being what it is, I can say now that that wasn’t quite true—I wasn’t a femcel. I just didn’t feel wanted.

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Internet ethnographer. I want to talk to you if you grew up with unrestricted access to the Internet. Tech correspondent at The Spectator. Staff Critic at Tablet. Bylines in The Dispatch, WSJ, The New York Times, and Politico. Accepting commissions.
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